You can tell it's a spam bot because it won't say "I see you haven't joined. Came across a site called Milf Area. Its an Aussie site where you can view profiles and some appear way dodgy. Chick with American flag.
My view is; if it appears suspect, it probably is. Have you had any feedback on this site at all? The only guaranteed dates I got was where the girl sets a price no sex at all and can't mention.
They'll for feral go out and takes no time at all so for 50 bux outta worth a shot at fin fib a good woman. I ended up paying far too much at or so but i coukd have fo r elsewhere for 50 which is less than dinner.
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Not only do we list the worst milf dating sites but also list legitimate places to meet women over As you can see the list of real cougar dating services is much smaller than the list of scams.
The good thing is these online dating services are not involved in fabricating fake profiles. Also they don't employ people who are paid to pretend to be interested in you so they trick you into purchasing upgraded subscriptions.
And they do not use computer software programs to send you fake chat messages and fake emails. So you can rest assured that you're in good hands with these dating services. We're not saying you're going to meet mature women on these sites that is entirely up to you however the opportunity to interact with real persons is here.
Just like regular dating, meeting someone involves the same type of process of getting to know them and having a mutual attraction for each other. I was very disappointed and feel this was a waste of time and money. Also, I was told by others that they had an option to join on a monthly basis. That option was never available to me.
I had to commit for 6 months. Also, even though I checked the box regarding not sharing my contact information, I am now bombarded with e-mails from Christian Mingle, Match and others. We should all create our own dating site. Everyone of you that negatively reviewed the site in question sound like the good guys.
I balked from joining it, as it had a cheezy feel to it. I did not know it was this bad however. Good luck to all of you. This is the worst website of this nature I have ever seen. I, too, wanted to get a refund, but NO! This could be someone who lives across the country no matter what you specified ; it could also be a woman again, I specified I was looking for a MAN , and many of my profile features were totally ignored. I recently was going to opt out as soon as my subscription was done in Oct.
I was clearing the Promote me screen when at the same time as hitting the X to get out of that the reactivate my acct popped up and was hit while hitting the X to get out of a different screen. Complete scam, renewal policies will get you sucked in for life. Features of this site is very primitive, users interested in are usually from out of state. They do this to make you feel like action is taking place on their end.
I was signed up for both of these sites which I believe is one and the same. I had married guys, foreigners with the same line I believe they must have some chain letter they circulate. They all have a dead wife, some family member die due to a violent crime , one child, born out of the USA.
Are suspicious of you. It goes on and on. The very worst thing that happened was someone hijacked me and I became a 6 foot 5 man. I had Amex cancel the renewal they hooked me once and surely they were not going to get me again. I think the only way to meet someone is to let it happen. O Boy, I see by reading the notices below that I am far from alone. Today I had to cancel my credit card to disable their automatic renewal charges.
The merchant phone provided to my credit company is dead. The credit company rep. And there is no way to block messages from people out of the area, so you get these canned messages from people all over the country. This site is a waste of money, but worse, a BIG waste of time. Thus website is a joke. They steal your money and get away with it.
I had someone hack into my PC and change my passwords. I get messages and when I say Hi they run the other way. Decided to read the reviews and could have saved my money. I thought POF was bad but at least it is free!! Live and learn read the reviews before you sign up I rate the site at You are absolutely correct. You have to be quite careful in just moving the cursor. Set up a profile, uploaded a pix and then……all I could do is click on yes, no or maybe. I come to find out that in order to READ any messages, send any messages or use on-line chat, I must upgrade!
I sent an email to the help center- all generated responses and now they are sending it to their technology dept! I also used a Visa card with the exact amount so they could NOT renew anything. Boy have I learned my lesson! Will say this is a pos website…signed up for one month and billed me for 6. They take your money and run,be very afraid! I also tried to sign up for 1 month but was billed for 6 months.
I did call their customer service line and they credited me for 5 months. But I was immediately aware that when I viewed a profile the system sent out a generic message to the person viewed. Same when someone views my profile, I get a message.
This is the worst dating site EVER! And the following month, without my permission, they charged my card again! Did I have him then! I told him that I had supervised a call center before and that what his company had done was illegal. So I saw that it was still up and not completely erased from their system like I had asked.
I told him that there was no page that I had clicked on to renew my subscription whatsoever, and that they had just decided to steal from my account without my permission! He got scared and gave me a confirmation to return my money back to my account within 72 hours. They also have partner single sites that will start to bombard you to join them, so watch out for them as well as I found out they are all related to each other.
These guys are based in Costa Rica. If you flip down through this thread, there are numerous posts similar to yours, generally saying that refunds are impossible to obtain. I agree with many of the comments above. Almost all of the replies I received were very obvious scams. The addresses were all marked ARIPO whatever, wherever that is and numbers spelled out onesevensix etc.
This should be very easy for them to create criteria to filter these very obviously fake profiles out. I got wind of the problem two days in…. I deleted my pics, and went thoroughly through my profile and deleted all, physically, then canceled my subscription, and they did that immediately.
So we shall see on the 23rd of Sept if they try to get more moola. Oh yes, I sent some feedback to them.. This site is nothing more than an internet scam. When you do they give you a clock to upgrade even more.
I guess put your name at the top of the list. Once I figured out how to work the website one of the worst interfaces I have ever seen. Now to the meat of the site. Over half the ladies that responded were sending personal emails or phone numbers and as the site says these people are scammers looking to pray upon you for money.
Many of the responses I got were from people who never filled out their profile! Many more never read my profile! I could tell because we had nothing in common at all! Some were contacting me from the other side of the country! Fortunately i found this page before a subscription. My intuition warned me insistently. They did not offer any test for 1 week…. I remember that they promoted with a sentence … you only get what you put in… something like that…. The site is uncomfortable — the pictures shown to you are very small thus you have to click on them immediately shown to the owner of the profile in concern.
The site itself is very ugly — made up like advertisements for articles in a supermarket. It is not worth it — and i feel really released having not subscribed there. I search for another one. It says when you read the agreements and about the site that you can not see your flirts etc unless you upgrade. If you are scanning and see someone that is really someone you would like to connect with, then upgrade for a month,. Good luck upgrading for just one month. I joined the site in November of In May of I wished Larry a happy birthday and we started a conversation.
We finally met the second week in June and instantly liked each other. Our relationship progressed and on August of we got married. One year later, we are very much in love and we thank Our Time for getting us together. Congratulations to both of you. Your man is fortunate as the imbalance in numbers of men to women on this site is advantageous to the ladies as it is on all dating sites.. A man needs to catch lightning in a bottle so to speak to have a chance, obviously some do, most do not.
I decided to do it after putting a profile and photos on for a week and realizing you cant even talk to anyone to see if real I got on for a special fee of Then all the replies i had 3 were real people the rest scammers i called about it and the over price not going to get my money back and said i had spoken to others they said they were billed for another month after putting the no renewal on the site so they keep billing you anyway.
I asked about all the scammers with some poor persons photos they stole I am sure mine will be in the uk or texas as well now as they teak them off these sites they said we get our customers to report the scammers i said i dont get paid for this ,you are being paid my me to have real people on there he had no answer. They still wont refund me and take me off there so am in it for the long hall till sept 6th my month is up This is a terrible site and dont even try to compensate the customer they just take and take beware not worth it.
Oh plus hardly anyone in my area then they send me guys form the opposite ends of the country lordy so blatant. I am sending a letter and contacting the Attorney General Fraud Division about this.
You will be billed anyway, but at least you can print out the page showing the Attorney General that you have that option turned off. That is my problem I requested no automatic renewal on May 31, only to find out that their records as per my account summary show I requested renewal on July 31, , which is not true.
I wanted off this site and was billed for the next 6 months. Any help out there on how to be done with this OurTime site???? My account site shows that I declined renewal on May 31 then shows I changed it on July 31 …. I did not total fraud. I was scammed for a month subscr. I learned my lesson. Good luck to all you nice people out there.
Total waste of money. Matches sent are not selected from the criteria you choose. Many responses without pictures, many immediately asking for your email address. Customer service is absolutely non existent other than canned automated responses that have nothing to do with your questions. Save your money, you will have better look meeting someone in a grocery store or book store,. Extreme caution on this site.
If you use a pop up blocker or quickly delete the popup your service is renewed. I say promised because the credit has not shown up on my credit card statement yet. Site is very heavy on upselling and has confusing options. Some your are billed for unless you opt out instead of opting in.
I have encountered Fraud all the way fake profiles and you know the rest. The one advantage I have is that close relative is a Federal Officer they picked wrong person to screw with Ha.
I just wanted go to dinner see a show have a laugh Not a hook up this site is a Ruuse. This is a horrible dating site. I would almost call it a scam. Stay away from it! Just a big waste of money. Stay with the reputable sites. I met a wonderful man on this site 2 yes ago and we got married last month. The site had people in my area and the price was about the same as the other sites but with people my age and men that were looking for a woman the same age. It was a great experience for us.
Beware of registering for Our Time. By putting in one keyword, I got 40 profiles that were exactly the same with different pictures and profile names. This makes the Our Time membership numbers seem much larger than they really are. It is also possible that these people are all scammers and that Our Time is not doing an adequate job of protecting members from scammers. After two weeks of using their service and discovering this, I asked for a pro-rated refund I was willing to pay for the 2 weeks I had already used but was told that no refunds are ever given under any circumstances.
I have already dealt with a scammer…. Cancelled but unfortunately I paid for 6 months. So far, I have talked with 8 different people and had conversations or chatted.
The majority were scams. They get a picture from somewhere and then, all they will do is text or chat with you. They will never offer to meet you or call you. I have had different profiles give me the same phone number to text. I am VERY disappointed in this website, and have paid hard earned money for something that is not even legitimate.
I have been on for less then a month. Almost every contact I have received requested my email and said that today was their last day on. Believe me — not so easy to cancel. The scamming is horrible. I thought I would try this out because I am a bit of a loner and thought it would be nice to maybe meet someone to chat with. Now I remember why I am a loner, lol.
I subscribed to this site a week a go. I got a message from someone who was interested. He saw my profile, he seemed nice, I responded to some messages talking about travel, nothing heavy.
Then he disappear, so I sent him a message saying that I had read many complaints about this site, so if he was not the person he was, that at least responded, just say goodbye, not interested. I got back the nastiest most offensive mail I had ever. He knew I was a liberal and a scientist. First he said that he loved my photo. Now he is attacking me for being a liberal and that he is not attracted to me physically. I thought he was a nice person, he had this photo of him as a soldier.
Be careful, I think that we should get together and file a joined complaint. We could try to communicate with people, but we do not deserve to be abused. I have been trying for a week to cancel mine, It wont let me cancel it. The no thanks option just stays idle.
There is no contact number, and it want me to enable something on my computer. OurTime does have warts. But check to make sure. Now for the actual experience of using OurTime. The site randomly selects from three or four such messages. There may be other activities that automatically send one of these messages. No amount of wishful thinking will make this real. It would be like dating my own grandmother. Thank you so much for the info on stopping automatic renewal. Thanks for an honest review, and the great instruction for canceling.
I am glad to know my instincts were right I will not be wasting my time or money on OurTime or any other dating site. Too scary out their for this ole gal. I have subscribed to ourtime. I would opt for one month, immediately opt out of the auto-renewal, and browse until it ran out. I suddenly get all of these messages! Sometimes more that one. So, I subscribe again, only to see they are either women with no picture, no profile info or someone that lives over miles away!
This is beyond coincidence. This happened to me as well. Subscription ended and within two days I had 6 Favorites and 19 Messages! You can opt out of the emails this site will send you. Scroll down to the bottom of the email and unsubscribe. I completely deleted everything that has to do with this site and no longer receive any type of communication from them.
So nice to have that aggravation out if my life. I signed up for six months on this site. Have found that most people I have contacted or have contacted me do not write back or their site is immediately removed. Without any notice I was automatically renewed with upgrades to double the rate initially paid.
It is impossible to contact them. They do not have a phone number for customers. I did email canceling but my account has already been charged. My bank is disputing this charge. I believe this is a scam to get money from older people. Since these bozos are apparently based in Costa Rica, nothing will get done.
Perhaps a better strategy is to complain to your local ISP provider that this is a fraud and suggest that they block access to this site for their subscribers. Little concerned that the latest scam seems to be retired cops. If things are not working it does not matter where Our Times is, a scam is a scam. This site is filled with scammers…all wonderful God-fearing guys who make between , to , a year and who immediately ask for YOUR email address or text no.
Ladies beware of these contacts. This website takes advantage of those of us who are hopeful that seeking a relationship within our age group will filter out some of the issues encountered on sites like Match.
After no success, I set my parameters to receive matches from people who are over years old. This site seems to be a money making scam that preys on mature adults. Stay away and keep your money. I signed up for 1 month and was charged for 6!!!!!! Customer Service is non-existent. Run like hell — Never get any messages, Site say talk to them now and as soon as you click the link message off line.
After paying for the 6 months they ask for more money. The settings for local and age group change. This site is bogus. Most were so not what I was looking for. I am a non smoker. I am relying on networking or just pure luck. My subsciption ends on June 20th! My experience with all online services with auto-pay is they are nearly impossible to cancel. Avoid at all costs!!
Who would give a negative review to a factual observation that the key to disabling auto-renew is almost impossible to find? OurTime is a horrible site. I signed up with basic information for the free membership. Within a few minutes notifications appeared indicating I had several e-mails and profile views.
Of course you have to pay to be able to read and send e-mail. Thankfully, I only signed up for one month. The e-mails were scammers from overseas. Rather than allowing members to opt in for automatic renewal, OurTime requires members to go through a many-step process to opt out of automatic renewal charges. The site has NO satisfaction guarantee or proportional refund. The site appears to benefit from scammers so newcomers will surely get mail and want to pay to read their mail.
I have written two questions in the customer service box and have received a response to neither. I would give negative stars if I could. Try a different dating site. I signed up for 6 months and turned auto renewal off. I still lost a month I paid for though. The service is not worth the price. The quality of the people on their website is not their fault, but the lack of customer service from Ourtime is unacceptable and infuriating. I found the women I met represented themselves accurately on the site.
Some may have had a better opinion of themselves then I had but so what? Some rejected me, some I rejected. The site kept my dance card full. There are some girls who are clearly on to rip off older guys. That aside, I thought the real women on the site were honest and high quality. Some extremely attractive, some attractive, some not attractive. Some where kind in our interactions, some rude, some simply disappeared. Some are horrible, most are good if you keep your expectations reasonable.
This is a good one. This review is a scam. Our time is the worst site out there! Must be 50 plus 2. Must pass background check 3. If you mange to get pass the background check and found to be a scammer. You will be prosecuted. Payment will be pay as needed. Be it 1 month or years. Pay for what you need. Not the one that shows how you looked in ! If there is anyone who feels the same leave a comment and I will respond as well as return with a web site. And our time I have registered my rules!
Sounds like this site sucks the bag was going to join but with all the horrible reviews I changed my mind. Sounds like a hookup site me. So sad that people cant have fun and enjoy meeting people especially at our age. I would got to a bar if I wanted to hook up. Who needs to pay to play? Most of my contacts were through chats. I found repeatedly that someone would claim to live in my area but could not even respond to basic questions about places they liked or restaurants they enjoyed.
Most have strange language patterns, are widowed, and use LOL way too much. They were always good looking and some even had more than one picture. One sent me his web page for his mining and precious metals company. The grammar was terrible and it was 3 pages of generic info including two totally different dates as to when the company went public. Needless to say, there is no such company. Another guy was supposedly from the town I grew up in — very small place.
I reported 3 scary people but they did nothing. I would guess I was contacted by 15 men who appeared to be scammers. I met my late husband on Match years ago so I know how to Internet date. I have never seen so many scammers before.
Guess because I am a fairly good looking blonde and showed myself to be a business owner, they thought I was an easy mark. Even simple screening and basic policing based on complaints should be expected for the fees they charge. The site itself is easy enough for anyone to use.
I am male and would say that there seem to be decent women on this site and the potential to meet someone meaningful appeared quite feasible. However, my experience has not been promising nor productive. I do have those but it hardly matters. Women seem obsessed with the height of a man. The worst case scenario are these: I cordially send them a complete message, then I do not hear from them.
What is that about? Then on more than one occasion, a lady thanks me for sending her a lovely message. She then asks me numerous questions. Sorry, I do not understand such arrogant behavior. There must be a better way! Recently joined the Not Free Ourtime dating site. Did not filter criteria when they ask you your preferences- height, location, age group- seems like they just sent whatever is on there.
Then- after only 48 hrs. Someone had rewritten everything I had posted! Saying rude comments and completely fabricating anything I am about! No customer service, no phone number with a live person. I deleted profile after paying for 48 hrs.!
I can totally relate. Unfortunately, in this world it seems negative outweighs the positive. Keep the faith, and keep trying. There are still decent people out there. I can really relate to Phil. I have been a paying member since April 1, I have been hit by at least 3 scam artists.
I am a widow, and believe that honest is the best policy while on these sites, but I am NOT ignorant! Nothing worse than people not communicating back with you when you try to communicate with them. I feel that OurTime should take the time to search and protect people.
Could eliminate the hassel! Supposedly eHarmony DOES check people for honesty about status divorced, widowed, separated , but I also received questionable matches there. Three times during my 4 months, I received messages from accounts which were hacked — so it happens a lot. I tried e-harmony once based on their pitch about extensive compatibility testing. That seems to be true, but the whole suite of questions totals something in excess of 1, Hi …I am a woman. I have tried the site twice in a year and found the same thing as Phil… so it goes both ways.
Men have done the same to me. Most men on there seem to be looking for a Barbie. And seem to still be looking because in the 8 month between me trying I get the same faces.
I was just looking for someone to spend time with my own age. To enjoy the rest of my life. Phil, Thank you for your review. I was ready to join this site given the positive ads , however I guess I am a skeptic and thought it best to see what others thought. Your review helped via the treatment you have had from others. I am sorry for your experience and yet grateful for your review. Agreed with many of your comments.
Even the most professional, diligent and customer-centric dating sites cannot filter out or block even a fraction of the scammers out there. Not unlike essentially every business out there, volume is the key for dating site survival. Whatever type of relationship you are looking for, the only chance you stand for meeting someone with similar interests is to join a site and pay for a subscription.
Those subscribers who pay for an upgrade are more likely to have a desire to meet someone. Or these promise to meet you and then shaft you.. I have answered some.
Lots of married men and I am sure women on these sites, beware! The site offers many men and I have responded to a few with no reply. Our recommendation is to sign-up for of the dating sites we recommend. The reason for that is diversification. You should be targeting as many women as possible. One site might be enough, however, you will significantly increase your chances of meeting someone if you sign-up for of them.
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